Conflict resolution at Northbridge - Take 5!

What is conflict?

Conflict is any situation where people do not agree. Conflicts will look and sound different at different ages and in different situations. 

Conflict is not necessarily a bad thing! Sometimes, it can lead to new perspectives and a deeper understanding of someone else’s point of view. We hope to show our children that it is normal and natural for disagreements to arise, but we must always deal with conflict in a caring and principled manner. 

If we can support our children to resolve conflicts fairly and equally now, imagine what they can achieve later in life!

What do we do when conflict arises?

We ‘Take 5’! Take 5 is an initiative that we promote in school. It encourages children to listen to each other and discuss disagreements. 

If we as a school have a common language, children can resolve conflicts with whomever they are with, as well as supporting others to resolve difficulties or problems. 

What are the ‘Take 5’ steps?

1. Stop!
2. Cool down. Take a moment to calm down and prepare to talk. Maybe take some deep breaths or have a drink of water. 
3. I talk, you talk. Listen carefully and speak clearly and calmly. 
4. Take responsibility. Take responsibility for your own actions, and apologise when necessary. Although it can be easy sometimes, try not to blame. 
5. Find a win-win. Come to a conclusion where both people are happy.

How can parents support at home?

• Model good conflict resolution with your family. 
• Talk to your child about conflicts that have happened that day. You may ask, “Can you tell me about any conflicts you resolved today?” or “Can you tell me about any conflicts that weren’t resolved today?”
• Try using these ‘Take 5’ steps to resolve conflicts between siblings